Grit is a better indicator of success
than talent. No matter how talented you think you are, if you don’t put in the
work, it will amount to nothing.
In Talent is Overrated, Colvin argues
that deliberate, methodical, and sustained practice is the way to achieve true
mastery.
“Deliberate practice is hard. It
hurts. But it works. More of it equals better performance. Tons of it equals
great performance.” Colvin writes.
Grit begins with a growth-mindset
If you strongly believe in the
science of human growth in mindset, you have a greater chance of cultivating
your grit over time.
That belief alone can give you the
perspective you need to stick with something even when the process is
difficult.
What can you do in small ways
everyday that would make it easy to take the necessary steps to pursue your
life-long goals?
Perseverance and resilience have a
lot to do with success than you think.
Grit requires sacrifice: embrace the
challenge!
Grit is essential for your success in
life, but it is not attractive.
It’s going to get hard, right?
It’s going to be difficult and you
are going to want to give up.
And some people, a lot of people,
will.
The act of becoming a master at your
craft takes a lot of purposeful practice.
You will experience messy
frustration. Motivation will ebb and flow, but you can only improve when you
commit to constant practice.
You will make tons and tons of
mistakes in the process. Making mistakes and failing are normal — in fact,
they’re necessary.
Embrace the long repetitive process
to get better.
Grit takes time, and many people
aren’t giving it. The cost of being the best and pushing towards meaningful
work takes a lot of sacrifice.
Many people are not ready for that.
But the whole point here is that, the
positive minset needed to get to the long term goal can be developed over time.
You can maintain the effort and
interest need to finish hard.
Sometimes you have to let go of something
good to grasp something great. The tendency not to abandon tasks in the face of
obstacles builds the resilience you need to succeed in life.
Fail forward
Failure is not fatal. Rejection is
also not fatal.
Failure is only a setup for a
comeback.
Failure might still sting a little,
but when you have grit, it inspires you to want to do better.
Instead of letting boredom be a sign
to switch gears, people with grit persevere.
Carrie by Stephen King was rejected
30 times before it was published.
Animal Farm by George Orwell was
rejected because there was no market for animal stories in the USA back then.
Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone
was rejected 12 times and J. K. Rowling was told “not to quit her day job.”
Disney was fired from the Kansas City
Star in 1919 because, his editor said, he “lacked imagination and had no good
ideas.”
Darwin was not enthused on becoming a
scientist his whole life, thanks to his dad, who called him lazy and too
dreamy.
Darwin once wrote, “I was considered
by all my masters and my father, a very ordinary boy, rather below the common
standard of intellect.”
So always remember: Be proud of your
work. And never quit trying.
Cultivate your grit and push yourself
further outside your comfort bubble. And remember what Ryan Holiday said “The
obstacle is the way”.
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